it's that time again!
Last year, I challenged myself to be Make-Up free for the month of November.
What I learned:
Make-up makes me feel a little glamorous, it's an addicting pick-me-up. With out it, I feel less than gorgeous; I must rely on my personality, not my looks for confidence. Last November, I remember looking in the mirror after I was all "ready" (no make-up really cuts down the time you need to get ready!), and thinking "welp, this is me." Before this challenge, I sensed myself becoming dependent on make-up and I didn't like that. Possibly, I was compensating for having a low physical self-image at the time. I learned that it is ok to have a low "self-image", because my physical self-image is not important. My spiritual self-image, relational self-image, emotional self-image, should far outweigh the physical. I know, girls, easier said than done.
After the challenge, I had broken my dependence on make-up. That felt great! When December 1 rolled around I was excited to wear some mascara, but I didn't feel like I NEEDed make-up anymore. I learned that I can be out-going, friendly, smiley, kind, loving, compassionate, all the good things that I want to be- all with out make-up!? The experience helped to shift my focus a little more off myself, which is always a good thing.
These are just a few little things that I learned from NMN last year.
Isn't it interesting? When I am headed to see friends, meet new people, work, i think i have to look my best. got to impress. When i feel good about my physical appearance, i elevate myself above others, what an ugly form of confidence? maybe i should be my best, not by looking the best, but loving the best.
Ladies, feel free to join me in this challenge=) I'd love to hear how it impacts you.